Wordless Wednesday ~ Christmas, 1963 in Baltimore, MD
21 Wednesday Dec 2011
Posted in Ballou Family, Children, David Kern Ballou
21 Wednesday Dec 2011
Posted in Ballou Family, Children, David Kern Ballou
20 Tuesday Dec 2011
Posted in Fountain Family
08 Thursday Dec 2011
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I spent this Thanksgiving Day reliving memories of Thanksgivings past at my Great Aunt Lena’s.
Thanksgiving Day of 1949, we traveled from our home at Grandma Faye’s, up the road south a quarter mile, over the bridge and into the mile long corn cob “graveled” farm lane of Aunt Lena’s. Because of the large snow drifts, Dad drove the tractor pulling us behind in a hay filled farm wagon.
My dog, Mitzi, who moved with us from California, rode along over the bumpy lane. She was excited about the ride and the snow. Leaning over the edge of the wagon too far, she bounced out. The wagon ran over her head. That’s all I remember of my first Thanksgiving in Nebraska.
Mitzi survived, mostly because of Grandma Faye’s nursing. She was put in the barn loft until she healed. All that time I wasn’t allowed to see her. Finally, she was out of the “hospital”. Mitzi was blind now, but otherwise her old self.
She lived with us many more years after we moved into Winnetoon. If Mom rearranged the furniture, Mitzi bumped into it for a few days until she became acclimated. If we left home to go uptown (a half block away), she would sniff our trail to find us.
Later Thanksgivings hold more pleasant memories…of family and food. I can still hear Aunt Lena’s son giving the Thanksgiving blessing in his deep, gruff voice.
The Thanksgiving meal was always plentiful. What I remember most was Aunt Lena’s flatbread, her spritz sugar cookies, her homemade butter molded with fancy cuts and her roasted, buttered, salted walnuts. But I never learned to stomach her “pumpkin pie” made from mashed carrots. Aunt Lena was a very frugal Norwegian.
Aunt Lena lived in the big old two story house built by her father (my great, great grandfather). It was much the same as when he built it, except for being 75 years old and a bit run down.
Entering Aunt Lena’s house was a time warp. Entrance was made into the enclosed porch by a north door. Then, you had to fumble in the dark for a several feet to find the fur buggy robe and push it aside to open the grayed kitchen door.
Just inside that door hung a razor strap and small mirror above a wash pan with homemade lye soap and shaving supplies on a small bench. On the opposite wall, next to the door leading to the dining room, sat the big old wood burning kitchen range which Aunt Lena used for cooking and baking. This was always adorned by a pan of slimy, gray dishwater…there was no running water or kitchen sink.
There were windows on the south, on the north were cabinets reaching to the ceiling and a entry door into a long narrow pantry, filled with cabinets and work space. I always wanted to peek into those cabinets to see if they were filled with my great, great grandmother’s treasures. At the east end of the pantry was another door opening into the dining room.
On the south wall of the dining room between two windows, sat the huge black and chrome heating stove with a rocker on each side. The west wall was curtained to hide shelves of magazines stacked to the ceiling, many from the early 1900’s and even a few from the 1890’s.
The east wall had a simple desk with an ancient radio and books, along with an old rocker and a fainting couch. In front of that couch sat a curious little upholstered footstool with cow horns for legs. In the middle of the room was a overly large dining table surrounded by chairs. An antique chiming clock hung on a special shelf on the west wall between the doors accessing the kitchen and pantry.
On the north wall between two doors was a country style glass front cabinet showing off great, great grandma’s dishes.
Actually, there were three doors on this wall, one led to a bedroom, the next to the stairway and the other to “The Room”. “The Room” was always closed off and colder than the outdoors. In it were a big bookcase, a china closet and some toys from long ago.
Upstairs were three bedrooms. The south one was almost overtaken by a rug loom. In another room in a dresser were several wooden stick horses. Oh, how, we coveted those horses.
An old tin toy, a board game and a castle bank entertained us after many holiday meals.
One Thanksgiving when we were full and lounging around, Mom’s little sister and I decided to dust the little horned legged footstool. We pounded and pounded the upholstery. Dust from back in great, great grandma’s day, rolled out and filled the dining room. Not one adult corrected us or said stop. To this day, we wonder, “Why did they let us get by with such a trick?”
Writing this has made me very nostalgic for the long gone farm home and my ancestors.
How I wish I could walk through Great Aunt Lena’s house again and talk with her of our family. Today I would appreciate all that she cherished, instead of beating the life out of my great, great grandparent’s horn legged footstool.
And, guess what, that little horn legged footstool now has a place of honor in my home.
[Editor's note: My apologies to Gayle for not getting this posted sooner. And thanks to her, once again, for another wonderful, descriptive story! I can almost imagine choking on the dust from that footstool!]
22 Tuesday Nov 2011
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ancestors, ancestry.com, cemeteries, descendants, Find A Grave, gravestones, Norwegian, Oleson, Winnetoon, witching

When the book was thrown at me, I was astonished. What could I do to rectify this mess? How could I redeem my ancestors and myself?
Oh, my! Grandpa Oleson why, oh, why, did you not keep records of our family cemetery?
The very first burials, which started in 1886 with one of my Oleson ancestors, were not plotted or recorded. After it became the Norwegian Cemetery, these early burials were called Section 15. Burials continued helter-skelter in Section 15 until almost 1930. Although the Olesons are in a tidy row and some families are surrounded with curbs or cornerstones. But the rest?
After it became the Winnetoon Cemetery, the newer part was broken down into lots and sections. There are many discrepancies…gravestones in alleyways, too close together, so many unmarked graves, stones slipping off their bases. The worst one is recorded on the map as “buried by mistake” with no name, no marker. Unbelievable!
So, I have spent most of my summer stalking graves in the Winnetoon Cemetery. I sneak there several times a week, recording every gravestone, returning again and again to recheck the information against the book and maps.
I called on a friend to “witch” the unmarked graves to see if they checked out with the records as to male or female, adult or child. Many people do not believe in witching. Yet, in each case he would give the correct reading without prior knowledge. He made a believer of me.
I have since put every Winnetoon burial (with the exception of eleven done by their family members) on Find A Grave. This is a small county cemetery with only 255 interred.
I got so involved with each person, their story and their family, as I searched for their obituaries. When I couldn’t find an obit, I went to Family Search and Ancestry to get relationships. For the majority, I did come up with information.
A real plus was finding some descendants via the internet. Not only have they added to the burial information and our Winnetoon Historical Society files, but some have become genealogy friends.
Find A Grave is such a wonderful way to honor our ancestors and help them be remembered, some decades after they died.
I already have my lot right beside my great-great grandparents. Now, I must get my obituary written, but I have a lot more research to do before I move in beside my departed family.
I have neatly recorded myself in the Cemetery book.
01 Tuesday Nov 2011
Posted in Foss Family
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ancestry.com, Bradford County, Cheshire, Foss, Lemuel Royce, Leroy, NH, Pennsylvania, Revolutionary War Veteran, Royce, War of 1812